Family of four using the Tell Me Cards conversation deck at the dinner table after a meal

Designed with child psychologists

Between Ages 5–9, Your Child Decides Who They Talk To

These are the questions that make sure it's you.

Discover their worries, dreams, joys

5-10 min at meals or bedtime

Perfect for ages 5-9

Get the Cards

No thinking required, just pull a card and read

Kids actually ask for more (not a chore)

green heart symbol

Trusted by 11,847+ parents


Join Sarah, Michelle, James and 11,844 others

As Seen On

today's parent logo
working mother logo
parents magazine logo
psychology today logo

Does This Sound Familiar?

speech bubble

All You Get Is 'Fine'

You ask about their day. They shrug. 'Fine.' 'I don't know.' 'Stop asking me!' The silence grows.

Outline of a speech bubble with a pause symbol inside, on a white background

"I Don't Want to Talk About It!"

After a meltdown, you ask what's wrong. They snap 'Just stop!'. They won't let you in.

Illustration of a parent and a child standing next to each other.

You Wonder What They're Not Telling You

They seem fine. But you can't shake the feeling there's more going on than they'll say.

Start Connecting Tonight

Here's What's Really Stealing Your Connection

Hint: It's not you. And it's not them

Phone with colorful icons around it on a beige background

Screens Are Built to Win Their Attention

Battery icon with a pink charge level on a beige background with sleep-related icons.

You're Too Drained to Think After a Long Day

Tangled lines inside a thought bubble with question marks, surrounded by colorful hearts on a beige background.

They're Deciding Who to Talk To - Right Now

Here's the good news:

You can fix all of this - starting tonight

Psychologists Call It

the Interrogation Effect

When a parent asks a direct question, kids feel pressure to perform. So they shut down.

Father holding up a Tell Me Cards conversation card while his daughter listens during an evening at home

Kids aren't being difficult, they're avoiding pressure.


That's why Tell Me Cards work. They feel like play, not interrogation.

Get My Cards Now
green heart symbol

Trusted by 11,847+ parents

A Peek Inside the Deck

107 questions across 7 categories. Here are a few.

Slideshow

Card with text 'If someone breaks a promise, how does it make you feel?' on a white background

Why This Works When Everything Else Fails

Two playing cards and a dice on a beige background

Feels Like a Game, Not an Interrogation

Kids resist pressure. But pulling a card feels like play, so they actually want to answer

Illustrations of a table, bed, and sofa on a white background

Works at Dinner, Bedtime, or Anytime You're Together

Use one card or five, anywhere you're together. Use them however you want

Three cards on a white background

Starts Light, Goes Deep - At Their Pace

Begin with silly questions, ease into meaningful ones. They never feel pushed or overwhelmed

How It Works (It's Really This Simple)

Young child smiling as her mother shows her a Tell Me Cards conversation card

Step 1 - Pull Any Card

Pick one that feels right - playful, thoughtful, or random. There's no wrong choice

Mother and daughter sharing a Tell Me Cards conversation card, daughter reacting with excitement

Step 2 - Everyone Answers

Read it out loud. Your child answers first, then you do too. When they see you sharing, they follow

Mother and daughter laughing together while playing with the Tell Me Cards conversation deck

Step 3 - Watch Them Light Up

One question sparks a whole conversation. Just 5-10 minutes changes everything

I'm Ready to Connect

What Other Parents Say

Honestly Didn’t Expect This

After years of one-word answers, these got my 9-year-old talking the first night. He told me what he's worried about at school.

- Jenna L., Mom of a 9-year-old

I Had No Idea What She Was Holding In

After one night with the cards, my daughter told me things I never knew were happening at school.

- Steve B., Dad of an 8-year-old

He Chose Us Over Screens

He put down the iPad on his own and asked if we could do the cards. I almost cried.

- Olivia R., Mom of a 6-year-old

Our New Favorite Ritual

My kids fight over who picks the next card, and dinner went from chaotic to part of the day we all look forward to.

- Mark D., Dad of 5- & 7-year-olds

Ages 5–9. The Window Is Still Open.

Tell Me Cards

Tell Me Cards

$39.99
Sale price  $39.99 Regular price  $59.00
Skip to product information
Tell Me Cards

"My son who never talks now asks for the cards every dinner."
— Jennifer K.

Tell Me Cards

$39.99
Sale price  $39.99 Regular price  $59.00

107 psychologist designed questions

Even resistant kids open up

Use at dinner, bedtime, or anytime

Perfect for ages 5-9

Payment methods
  • Apple Pay
  • Google Pay
  • Mastercard
  • Visa

30-Day "Best Conversation Ever" Guarantee

No connection? Full refund. No questions asked.

30-Day Money-Back Guarantee

Ships from the USA

24/7 support

Frequently asked questions

What kind of questions are in the deck?

They range from playful to meaningful. Here are a few:

  • Are you more like the sun or the moon? Why?
  • When did you feel brave?
  • What do you think about at night?
  • If someone breaks a promise, how does it make you feel?
When will my order ship?

Orders are typically shipped within 1-2 business days and usually arrive within 1–5 business days.

You’ll receive a tracking number by email as soon as your order ships.

What ages is this good for?

Best suited for ages 5-9, though younger and older kids enjoy them too

Do we need to sit down for a long time to use it?

Not at all. Most families use 1–2 cards in 5–10 minutes - at dinner, bedtime, or in the car. It’s meant to fit naturally into your routine, not become another “task.”

What if my family is a little awkward at first?

That’s completely normal. The cards are intentionally light and playful, so even shy or quiet kids ease into them quickly. Most families find it feels natural after the first card or two.

How do I use this deck?

Pick a card, read the question, and follow your child’s lead. That’s it. Use it anytime you want a fun, meaningful conversation. No rules, no scripts, no pressure.

What’s in the box?

Each deck includes 107 beautifully designed cards across 7 categories (and 7 blank cards for your own questions).

Is it reusable?

Yes, you can use the cards again and again. Kids give different answers as they grow, which keeps the deck fresh over time.

Is it a good gift?

Absolutely! Parents tell us it’s their favorite “family gift” because it’s thoughtful, useful, and actually gets used, not another toy that sits on a shelf.

What if I decide it’s not for me?

No worries. You’re covered by our 30-day Best Conversation Ever guarantee. If you don’t love it, we’ll refund you - no questions asked.