Between ages 5 and 9, your child's inner voice is forming

✓ Designed for ages 5 to 9, the formation window
✓ Built on 40+ years of child psychology research
✓ Works in 5 to 10 minutes a day

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Tell Me Cards parent-child conversation cards used by a family at the table for screen-free connection

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No script. No awkwardness.

10 minutes. One card.

Even resistant kids open up.

Built on child psychology.

Pull. Answer. Connect.

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A peek inside the deck.

107 questions across 7 categories. Here are a few.

Card with text 'Are you more like the sun or the moon? Why?' on a beige background

White card with text 'What makes you different from others?' on a light gray background

White card with text 'What do you like about growing up?' and a blue star on a beige background

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Tell Me Cards parent-child conversation cards on a founder’s notebook, showing the story behind a screen-free tool for helping kids open up

Why this exists

It started with a pattern my wife noticed.

My wife is a psychologist who works with adults. She kept noticing the same thing across her clients: a quiet, recurring feeling of not having been seen as a child.

The research kept pointing to one window: ages 5 to 9. The years your child forms a working model of which adults are safe to talk to. Tell Me Cards is what I built for those years.

This is for parents who want to do better than their parents did.

Nik, founder of Tell Me Cards

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What the research says.

Memory becomes continuous at 5.

What you say now is what they'll remember.

By age 10, the pattern is set.

Kids quietly decide which adults feel safe to talk to.

Cards work where questions don't.

A card feels like play. A question feels like an interrogation.

What other families say.

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My kids fight over who picks the next card. Dinner went from chaotic to something we all look forward to.

Mark D., Dad of two

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After years of one-word answers, these got my 9-year-old talking the first night about things I never knew worried him.

Jenna L., Mom of a 9-year-old

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My daughter who always said 'I don't want to talk about it' now asks for the cards every night.

Olivia R., Mom of a 6-year-old

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Common questions.

107 open-ended questions across seven categories: daily life, feelings, family, friendship, dreams, values, and creativity. Designed to start conversations, not test answers.

Designed for ages 5 to 9, the window when kids form their model of which adults feel safe. Many families use it with kids slightly younger or older.

5 to 10 minutes. Works at dinner, in the car, at bedtime, or anytime you have a few minutes together.

Common, and it passes fast. Start with lighter cards (dreams, creativity, daily life). Move to deeper ones as the ritual settles in.

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107 cards. Ages 5 to 9. Designed with child psychologists.

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Tell Me Cards parent-child conversation card deck with question cards designed to help kids open up and build emotional connection